Courage
I did a real estate closing today for a man who embodied courage. He was not a huge or imposing figure physically but the strength of his character filled the room like a balloon blown up inside of a 2 liter pepsi bottle. There was little room weak constitutions or selfishness. I inquired why he was moving and he indicated that he was moving to West Virginia to take of his sister. I asked rather presumptiously if she was ill and he confirmed. He stated that she was given 2 months to live because she had advanced bone cancer. “She called me a month ago and said, I need your help. I am dying and I need you,” he clarified. He did not add emphasis or hyperbole just a matter of fact statement of declared need. He told me that he decided to sell his house and start a new chapter of his life by helping close hers. He stated that God knew what he was doing. I asked how. He told me that his wife died of cancer last year and he would not have been able to move to West Virginia if she had still been sick. “The thing that really concerns me is my sister’s 12 year old son. What is he going to do?” he asked. The enormity of this man’s task and character settled into my chest like double pneumonia. I was awed by the lack of bitterness and selfishness in his heart and perspective.This man’s draft card got pulled. Instead of burning the card or outsourcing the calling, he stepped up and accepted his call to duty. God drafted this man into war against sadness, illness and pain all while knowing the inevitable. God did not ask him nor consult him but called him up nevertheless because I think God knows that this man has the courage to fight the fight. As he left my office, he said, ” I know everything is going to be ok.” I could use some of that courage. AH

Mike on 29 May 2008 at 12:35 am #
Thats something that not everyone could do or is willing to do.. The mere fact that it didnt seem like he even had to think about it is pretty cool.. How do you know when something is the right thing, or something that you are just supposed to do? People say to me all the time when i ask those questions, “you just know” one act of random kindness, thats all it takes to motivate people.. Sister or not, even if a friend had called and said the same thing, he probably would have done it.. I would do the same..
Cris on 29 May 2008 at 1:09 am #
Wow thats pretty powerful. Some of the best and most fulfilling parts of life are not what you have done, but what you do for others. Drop everything and put your life on hold so another can move on…
Mojo on 30 May 2008 at 1:31 am #
What I really love about this are two things. One, his certain single purpose focus on taking care of his sister. And two, most importantly his complete surrender to what life has put in front of him.
No resistance, no complaints, no blame. Just complete and utter submission to what God has in store for him.
Awesome! Thanks for sharing,
Mojo